I honestly think that if you can’t be comfortable with someone in silence then that’s someone you may have some issues with (or you have anxiety. In that case ignore). That’s why when he said he didn’t realize we’d been quiet for so long I got really happy. Maybe that’s stupid, but I’m okay with it.
I just started my birth control today and I’m really nervous. Nervous about what I consider to be an “adult” thing when I don’t really consider myself much of an adult at all.
I’m nervous about the side effects; potential blood clots, gaining weight, painful menstruation. The spotting doesn’t really concern me much, that already happens. I suppose I’ll just have to adopt a really healthy lifestyle in order to combat those issues. But while I am extremely worried, I’m also happy about having something to regulate my period and also, NO BABIES!!
So you know, pros and cons.
The best thing about coming home is taking your pants off.
i’m kind of against “feminists fuck better” as like, literally any sort of political statement nowadays because like, uh, who cares. like literally who cares, we shouldn’t be appeasing men who are afraid of feminists by saying we’ll give you better orgasms and have less limits than those prudish other women.
stop making feminism about how turned on men are by fierce, independent women who wear red lipstick blah blah blah. it’s boring and useless.
I’m a feminist and I’m not sure I “fuck” all that well. He’s never complained though.